Thursday, December 17, 2009

Local Yokels


The Chicagoland pagan scene still suffers the infamy of some really bitter 'witch wars.'  Several generations of practitioners later, varieties of both eclectic and traditional folks have the twitchy, post-traumatic legacy of defensiveness operant in their systems.

Indeed, there were some amazing personalities and egos at work in generations past, the fallout of their tempers and hostile attitudes, coupled with the ongoing rumors and innate defensiveness of some contemporary people, leave the fabled Chicago witches with a legacy that many wish would just die-off already.

In the last decade, some of the newer blood folks have extended olive branches towards groups that once harbored "the enemy faction"....and these people did respond favorably towards a truce, if somewhat hesitantly at first.  I think the intervening generation of practitioners infused the area with more tolerance and perhaps fresh perspective on some of the former in-fighting, thus giving up some of those lingering ghosts which were the root-cause of the more ravenous debates.

And well, frankly, some of the old participants in the 'witch war' have left the pagan scene through their own choice to go underground with their pursuit of spirituality, a few have "changed teams" and become Christians, and a few have died, leaving their groups and downlines to make their own decisions about the importance of continuing old arguments.  Thankfully, most of those left to pick up the pieces in the aftermath opted on the side of more peaceable, or at least less confrontational, agreeing-to-disagree stances on things.  Some of the feuds may not be reconciled, but at least we didn't see the need to keep fighting long after the reasons which incited the war were obscured by time and the removal of the key personages involved.

So it has also been in recent years that our Chi-town answer to the Hatfields and McCoys have learned to mind their own business and grow, even flourish, within the context of their localized area.  If time has taught us that trying to pull in too wide a net of people caused erruptions of ego, of too many would-be leaders jockeying for power and credit for mammoth events....then the best solution would be to live in our fractal, yet congenial serfdoms and pockets of paganism.  The smaller scale afforded us a sort of regionalized team spirit.  The city proper, the northern suburbs, the western suburbs, the south suburbs...each like mini hubs which have their own unique flavors and specialized offerings for types of pagans and witches.

This is how, in my opinion, the City of the Big Shoulders has morphed itself and learned to co-exist.  With the advance communication of the internet, the rallying around of people attending local events and festivals or all converging on pagan-friendly stores in their neighborhood rather than journeying forth to other surrounding communities....this has led the way, surprisingly, towards less competition instead of greater. 

The best part, as far as I have experienced it, is that the local community "leaders" or "spokespeople" tend to communicate with each other about their own little hubs, being more open to sharing info, giving referrals, etc.  Occasionally you'll pick up on the faint whiff of stale attitudes and worries from the folks who had been on the Chicago scene during the 'war years'....but these are getting to be less and less as the newer blood sees no need to perpetuate things that happend in the 60's, 70's or 80's.  Hell, some of the currently thriving groups weren't even in existence during those decades!!

Another tremendous outcome born from our shared, painful past, is the solidifying of family trees. The capturing of data and histories of how the greater Chicago metro area arrived at its present state with such a wide range of offerings for those who would seek out pagan and witchcraft avenues.  A few of us have been collecting the stories and information of the origins of our spiritual factions.  We're building a verifiable family tree of how Group A spun off of Group B or how High Priest Y and High Priestess Z founded Coven RST circa 1973 and that they had taught so-and-so who later moved to the western 'burbs and established Coven RTS in 1982, etc.  We have the makings of an expansive and really illuminating.....and truly, pretty inbred!....Chicago family tree.  We know who is/was lineaged, who came up through Pagan Way, who is a transplant of another tradition from another part of the US or elsewhere in the world, who created a thriving new denomination of Craft wholesale.  We know which groups spawned others, who founded them, who left them to begin a tangentally related group somewhere else.   We're learning....because those who do not learn from the past are destined to repeat it.

Plus, there have been some instances of "new blood" coming into the area as folks who were taught specific lineaged traditions arrived and began teaching their specific type of Craft, and these have added to the tapestry of our regional flavors.  It is utterly amazing to see the generational impact that these influxes and progenerative waves have produced on the established schools of thought.  Especially so when they are each adopted and absorbed by their smaller, local area and then later "announced to" the wider Chicago scene.

Where in the 'witch war' past this may have caused an uproar and a staunch prove you are legit or else we won't recognize your group as anything but a threat to our established ways, nowadays, most folks are delighted to see a fresh dose of folks arrive in their locale.  Rather than acting out of fear, we tend more towards cautious curiosity, and if they are proved integritous, acceptance.  Even welcome.  This change in attitude, change of heart, has been remarkable to witness.

I myself was just coming into paganism at the tale end of the 'witch wars' and although I didn't know all the players first hand, I did know who they were and what each side was accusing the other one of perpetrating.  It was daunting for me, newbie that I was at that time, to read about how magical and loving and powerful all this witchcraft stuff was supposed to be and then to have to witness such hostility and egotistically advantageous behavior from the supposed leadership in our fair city.  However, taking to heart that bit about "let naught stop thee nor turn thee aside," I'd persisted in my pursuit of seeking out the Craft that I had read about, that I was sure was there somewhere beneath this awful veneer of ugly in-fighting, name calling, gossip and calculated bad press.

It took awhile, years in fact, and some hard lessons of pushing past the gossip, the storytelling for self-promotion, the lies which slanted views about "the other side" whom I'd never had the opportunity to meet.  I had to remember what I'd come to paganism, to witchcraft, looking for....to follow the trail of what was ultimately important in my seeker's quest....and that was to find a group, a course of study, a coven family that was kindred of the spirit, even if they were human too. 

In time, I have crossed paths with many varieties of pagans in my local community.  Some of them have been quietly doing what they do and are most effective in their private work outside the ken of the rest of the City of Chicago.  Others have been more vocal and active in the promotion of legal rights for pagans, or have hosted introductory classes or small teaching circles for those who would like to learn but who don't necessarily want the affiliation of a particular tradition.  Others are teachers of specific lineaged paths, some publically known as elders of this trad or that trad and a few who remain "hidden" so that potential students can test their mettle by searching and discovering them in their midst.

It does my heart good to hear that the reputation of Chicagoland is improving, even if it is a slow process of re-educating the wider pagan populace.  We're no longer the seat of all the heartache and drama that we once were......and we'd like some credit for having learned from our very painful mistakes of the past so that we can continue working towards a more conducive, honest future.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Pagan Headscratcher - The "Gold Standard"?!



When you notice something odd once, you think:   hmm, that's weird...

When you notice the same oddity twice, you think:   gee, what a remarkable and strange coincidence....

But when the same idiocy shows up in greater frequency, you think:   Really? You have got to be kidding me!!

And so it was that I've witnessed the phrase:  "Gardnerian Wica is the 'gold standard'" several times this week, much to my chagrin and increasing acid reflux. 

What on Goddess' green Earth does this silly affectation imply?  Who is perpetuating such nonsense?  Does anyone honestly believe it?  Anyone else think this comment and the list of erroneous assumptions behind it are ridiculous to the point of wishing to offer the speaker of this phrase a Professor Snape-like smack to the back of his or her head?




It is just wrong on many levels, and it comes across as a left-handed compliment of the type where you are not quite sure if the speaker is attempting to flatter you to gain your trust by means of excessive and overt manipulation or if they have just given you a sly and subtly disguised insult couched in the guise of nod to your ego.

First off, let's start with the Gardnerian's perspective of this phrase.  On the surface, it appears to give deference and praise to the accomplishments of our particular form of witchcraft, but in reality, it is attempting to hold us accountable for what other traditions and practitioners do, as if we have some authority to grant them authenticity or validity based upon the private goings on within our own trad.  That does not make any sense whatsoever.  What a Gard person does with in the privacy of their own coven, line and tradition family, is their own business and they have utterly no weight in the giving or withholding of creedance or standards outside this circumscribed parameter.  Gards (and other BTW's for that matter) don't really give a damn about the goings on in other factions of the Craft, so long as those other factions do not seek to imply they have knowledge of our inner workings or may speak on our behalf when they are genuinely not privvy to same.

I've given my novel on this subject before in earlier blogs, "Ah, the 'valid' thing again" and "Rectal Habidashery" and most notably, "Phantom Yardsticks," but the subject keeps rearing its ugly head.  It leaves me wondering if the current wave of new witches are truly suffering from fragile egos or if there is still some faction of rigidly asshat traddies from circa 1960's still fighting the war on eclecticism.  I'll be darned if I've ever met any of those older folks like that in the many pagan circles I run with (no pun intended).  Coincidentally, every time I run into a newbie who says they've met one of these calcified oldsters and I ask them for the person's name or contact info, they can never provide it so I can verify the interaction for myself and take it up with my traddie brethren to remedy.  Hard to fix the alleged problem, if I don't have concrete evidence of its existence, only second-generation rumors and heresay.

So back to my point, all the Gards I know aren't flattered by this "gold standard" idea and certainly don't believe it of themselves.  It defies logic and seems to imply that if you're not part of this one specific type of witchcraft, then you aren't worth your herb closet.  But the proof of witchery is in the pudding...the action and good outcome of your workings, the temperance and wisdom experienced in your path that determine whether or not you are legit.  The littany of "who begat whom" isn't what warrants you the merit, as lineage is only an indicator of the manner of study you have undergone and the standards by which you'd be measured amongst others of similar practice.  We don't measure others, we measure ourselves. 

Now then, this "Gardnerian gold standard" phrase also is rather insulting towards all the other long-standing, viable types of witches...some of whom are contemporaries of the Gardnerians, some who pre-date the formalized Gardnerian path and some who have formed more recently but are no less functional and worthwhile versions of witchcraft spirituality.  It must really irk them to be forever ranked "less than the Gards" somehow, either because they're not as widely recognized and known or else they don't have the recorded history/lineage longevity that the Gards may have. 

For example, in the BTW world, there are many varieties of witches who link back to the New Forest area of Britain, but not all of them descend from Gerald Gardner or have any direct affliation to his contributions to modern Wica.  Some of these folks come from family traditions that may have existed concurrent to Gardner or perhaps may have at some point stemmed from an earlier common, insular source.  Not all of these varieties participated in the exchange of occult information during their formative years.  They weren't interested in "saving witchcraft" as old Gerald, and later Alex, may have been, and so perhaps they didn't have a spokesperson out there talking to the media and informing the general public of their existence.

And so these hidden witches could, and probably do, have widely different practices than what the Gards possess.  Practices which fufill needs, promote ideas and offer avenues of thought outside the ken of what Gard folks may or may not work with.  Thus, to call out only one type of witch --in this case, the more visible Gardnerians-- and not account for these other groups, seems unfair and misleading.  How can you have a standard if some folks allegedly being "measured" would be off the charts altogether?

Now onto the completely felonious useage of this "gold standard" statement as it relates to the Eclectic movement.  If I were still an eclectic practitioner, this concept of having a "gold standard" would piss me off.  What purpose does it serve me, as an eclectic, to be constantly compared to something which I know little to nothing about and therefore cannot hope to achieve any sort of credibility without paying deference to them?

It's my favorite analogy again.....as if the automakers would go around trying to sell their wares not by speaking of their own good qualities and benefits, but instead by constantly speaking in terms of reference against the qualities of their competitiors:  "Buy our Chevy Trucks because they are as good as Fords"...or "Go with a Jeep since we're practically a Land Rover."  See what I mean?  It is like offering your respectful submission to the other party by even stating they are related to you.

If there is such a thing as a Gold Standard, that implies that there are such things as those which are less than Gold.....and who wants to fight that no-win comparison battle all the time?  Who wants to forever look for validation and affirmation from outside themselves?

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Happy Holidays, all of 'em - Part Two


Taken from a recent pagan chat discussion...

SOME UNNAMED PAGAN PERSON:
I am writing to let everyone know that the article about Walmart now telling everyone "Merry Christmas" is not fair to everyone.  From what I gather in the article, Walmart is now going to wish everyone "Merry Christmas" or "Happy Hanukah" etc. Not once in the article did I see where they were going to wish any of us who are Wiccan/Pagan, a "Merry Yule" or "Happy Solstice" on Dec 21st. 


So I called the headquarters and asked them that they include these greetings,too. I told them I thought it was not fair that they wish others a greeting for their holiday, but not us wiccan/pagans. She felt that I was right so, she made a note of it to pass on. The headquarters number is : 1-800-925-6278 or you can go to : Walmart.com and do it online....


 
MY RESPONSE:
No offense to Lady _______, but I really find this whole thing tiresome. It comes up every year....some people, pagan and otherwise, gettting all bent out of shape over how the holiday season doesn't give equal billing or enough attention to their religious beliefs.

I must be getting more lenient, more tolerant or maybe more lax in my old age, but anyone who wants to send any sort of well-wishes my way at anytime of year is very much welcome to do so, regardless if it stems from another religion's heritage or my own.

Whether it is by saying "God bless you" when I sneeze or offering me a hearty "Happy Holidays" during the month of December, its all ok by me. I am happy to accept blessings whereever I can get them, graciously and with a sense of gratitude.  Certainly my deities of choice do not get jealous because a compassionate person has offered me a greeting or a prayer by way of their understanding of God?  Why should it bother me that Walmart or any other business welcomes or thanks its patrons with similar salutations. So what if whomever wrote the memo didn't have the knowledge base by which to recognize that I may not also share their belief system and should therefore they should tailor their comments to align with my spiritual path?


At the end of the day, my spirituality doesn't involve the goings on of people outside world nearly as much as it involves my relationship with my deities. My holidays, my holy days, are important to me because that is how I celebrate this relationship with God/dess...not because I am looking for outside recognition that everyone else should acknowledge my beliefs.


The warmth of feeling expressed by the general public, even during the commercialism of this time of year, far outweighs my need to push my political correctness agenda on anyone.  So when someone says "Merry Christmas" to me, I just smile and wish them a "Happy Solstice" right back. If they take offense at receiving a benediction or beatific blessing in honor of the season, that it THEIR problem, not mine.